Still, it was kind of you to share in my distress. – Philippians 4:14
While Paul, in this passage, is talking about the sharing of material goods as a kindness, there is another type of kindness that seems to be in short supply in this election year–civility. Respecting life this month means that we must also respect one another in conversation.
To that end, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops began a campaign in 2019 now called, “Civilize It: A Better Kind of Politics.” Bishop Frank J. Dewane, of Venice, FL, emphasizes the importance of “Civilize It”: “Conversation in the public square is all too often filled with personal attacks and words that assume the worst about those with whom we disagree. We are in need of healing in our families, communities, and country. “Civilize It” is a call for Catholics to honor the human dignity of each person they encounter, whether it is online, at the dinner table, or in the pews next to them.”
The USCCB invites you to join the “Civilize It” campaign by taking the pledge below in order to bear witness to a better way to promote civility, love our neighbors, and build a respect-filled community.
I PLEDGE:
Charity – To affirm through my words and actions the dignity of every person, each made in God’s image. Even those with whom I disagree are made in his image. To respectfully listen in order to understand experiences different from my own.
Clarity – To engage in critical examination to ensure that my perspectives are rooted in truth, that my sources of information are unbiased, and that I do not open myself to manipulation by partisan interests. To form my conscience through prayerful reflection, study of scripture and Church teaching, and guidance from reputable experts. To reflect on my own values and seek, with others, to identify shared values. To be open to the process of dialogue that can require change of perspective—my own and others’—in service to the inviolable dignity of all and the common good.
Creativity – To be a bridgebuilder who participates in constructive dialogue based in shared values, a mutual exchange of gifts, and the humility to together seek the good. To see differences in perspective as opportunities for creative tension which can yield solutions for the common good. To work with others in order to identify creative solutions rooted in our shared values.
Sign up here: A Better Kind of Politics | Civilize It | USCCB
Barbara Molinari Quinby, MPS, Director
Office of Life, Dignity, and Justice Ministries
Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral Raleigh, NC